Judgment Day

” Only God can Judge me”  Do any of you really believe that is true?   Tupac believed that, but in the end,  I’m pretty sure he learned that wasn’t the case. Have you ever heard people say “It’s not my place to judge” ,  or ” I don’t judge anyone”, or ” Don’t judge a book by it’s cover,” or  “Who are  you to judge?”  Why do we utter such nonsense? It’s lies. We are just lying to others, to ourselves, but fooling no one in the process. What we should be saying instead is that judgment is innate. It is human. It is honest. What matters is what  we do with that judgment. How we act unto others after making the judgments or thinking the judgments is the real concern here. But to deny something that is involuntary is to deny human nature. We can’t control whom we judge. We can only control how we treat others after. And you can bet God will judge those actions the most. 

We all judge. No matter if you come to terms with it or not, fact is fact. You walk out of your house everyday and stare judgment directly in the face, unintentionally, unconsciously, or sometimes plain out deliberately. We can fool ourselves all we want by thinking we don’t judge, by thinking we never think we are better than another, but we all do it. The human species will continue to do it. Forever.

It’s not only us who are judging, but we are also the victims of being judged; by our race, by our face, by our weight, by our friends, by being human. It is something that is beyond our control. I do not have power over my way of thinking upon meeting you. I look at you, I see you for the first time, and I don’t just look away without a second thought. I read you, I analyze you, I admire you, or  I shamefully belittle you. Simply put, I judge you. All by the way you look, or the way you stand, or by with whom you are accompanied.( ” Tell me who you hang around with and I’ll tell you what you are.” ) I walk inside a destination and I don’t think about the judgments being thrown my way. I am oblivious to the people around me deciding who I am and how I am all by the way I look at that particular moment in time and by the actions in which I am participating.

I don’t think about the millions of bystanders I am unaware of that are deciding if I’m pretty, if I’m ugly, if I’m fat, if I’m skinny, if I’m smart,  if I’m like them, or if I’m abnormal in any way. I don’t think about the people deciding if I’m worthy of their attention, if they want to befriend me, if they are jealous of me, or those people that hate me instantly, just like that.

I don’t think about my elders who look at me and see their youth flashing before their wise eyes and think ” I never dressed like that, or talked like that, or acted that way.” I don’t think about the kids who may look up to me  or the kids that  decide right there on the spot that when they grow up they will never be like me, or dress how I dress, or talk how I talk, or hang with people like the ones I hang with.

The point is you just don’t think before you judge.  I’m completely unaware of all that is being directed at me and all that I am directing at others. Right now though, as I sit here and think about the things that I never think about; I am discovering that the only way to overcome judgment is to come to terms with the fact that we can never overcome it.  It’s a force that is naturally beyond our control.

Some of us spend our whole lives anticipating the famous so-called “Judgment Day” and I can’t help but wonder what we are all worried about. We’re all dreading a day when we’re supposed to be judged. The sad part is that that one day is every day-for as long as we shall live and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it.

Maybe stop and think  about this before you tell someone ” I don’t judge,”  It is not dishonorable and wrong to do so. It’s more honorable to come to terms with the fact that all of us judge, than to be dishonorable by lying about it, and defying the components that make up human nature. I say, go ahead and judge. You will anyway. What defines character is what you choose to do with those judgments and how you act in spite of them.  

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9 responses to “Judgment Day

  1. Honey, you really are sooo good at this—keep it going & eventually you could write a book!!!

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  2. Deanna

    This really is so true. As much as we don’t want to admit it, we all judge people everyday. I guess it is just like a natural instinct to do so

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  3. Michelle

    Your so talented my friend!! 😘

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  4. When people say “Only God can judge me” I can only think that I would rather them judge me than God judge me. Honestly, your blog is very true. I hate to admit it, but I judge people the minute I meet them; it can be a positive connotation, right? Like “Wow, that person has an amazing smile” Or am I going about this whole judgement thing incorrectly? Another thing that I see, in my personal experience, is the fact that humans will always compare themselves to others. I do it, sometimes it’s terrible, sometimes it’s not.

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  5. Jamie Szumanski

    Judging is very natural, I agree. It defines you on how you act with your judgements. Very good post, Lisa.

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